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\n Adolescence is the
\n Netflix
\n shows captivating audiences worldwide, everyone drawn into the story of the 13-year-old boy charged with murdering a fellow female student. However, alongside this, it also leads to
\n powerful watching
\n , the program casts an alarming spotlight on the troubling impact of social media and chauvinist male content creators on young males.\n <\/p>\n
\n The previous week, ex-England coach Sir
\n Gareth Southgate
\n used the
\n BBC
\n ‘s esteemed Richard Dimbleby Lecture to criticize “heartless, deceitful, and harmful influencers” exploiting
\n young men
\n Online. Instead, he advocated for robust male role models and secure, tangible environments such as community centers for young people.
\n young people
\n to flourish and grow.\n <\/p>\n
\n Omar Akhtar, who works with young people, conducts sessions for teens aged between 13 and 19 at Mahdlo, an OnSide Youth Zone located in Oldham, Greater Manchester.
\n Manchester
\n The youth center, among the 15 such centers across the country, boasts nearly 3,000 members. Sir Gareth dropped by earlier this month during his research for his upcoming BBC speech.\n <\/p>\n
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\n Omar, who has over seven years of experience working with teens, mentioned, “I got chills watching ‘Adolescence.’\u201d He explained that the series’ themes and messages were incredibly potent and brought back numerous recollections of conversations he\u2019s had with the youth he interacts with daily, particularly regarding their experiences growing up under the impact of social media.\n <\/p>\n
\n This series makes for quite an engaging viewing experience, and parents might have to exercise discretion. However, both teenagers and their parents ought to contemplate watching this because it addresses numerous significant matters. It was delightful having Sir Gareth at our youth center, witnessing a broader discussion emerge from the themes he has brought up.\n <\/p>\n
\n In this segment, Omar discusses five key points that all parents who have viewed “Adolescence” should be aware of when bringing up teenage sons.\n <\/p>\n
\n From what I\u2019ve observed, boys generally tend to be more reserved when discussing issues that concern them compared to girls. In my role as a youth worker, we\u2019re taught to connect with each young individual based on their current state, invest time in understanding them better, discover their passions, and establish a bond grounded in shared respect and trust. A teenage boy probably won\u2019t immediately share his concerns just because you ask him \u2018What\u2019s bothering you?\u2019 Show your genuine interest and care for both who he is and his viewpoints, and subsequently provide him ample time and room to express his emotions.\n <\/p>\n
\n Discovering an activity you both enjoy, such as taking a stroll in a park or the countryside, preparing a meal together in your kitchen, or even playing a round of billiards, can help ease conversations around tough topics. Adolescents often find direct eye contact uncomfortable during serious discussions, which is why engaging in activities like walking alongside one another or cooking side-by-side tends to facilitate more open dialogue compared to facing each other seated at a desk or table. In my role as a youth worker, I encourage teenage boys at our club to participate in enjoyable and energetic pursuits\u2014be it through team sports, scaling the climbing wall, or testing their skills with
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\n It\u2019s crucial for adolescent males to have genuine, dependable adult male figures in their lives who exemplify positivity and openness. These mentors may include educators, relatives, youth counselors, or athletic trainers. The youths we engage often lack paternal influences growing up; consequently, before joining our clubs, many do not encounter any significant male role models. Discussing private matters with mothers can feel uncomfortable for these teens, leading them to suppress their feelings. As a result, they tend to withdraw socially and rely more heavily on digital devices like smartphones and platforms such as social media. Inspired by the Andy’s Man Club initiative from last year, we established \u2018Guy Time\u2019 sessions within our youth centers. During these times, designated areas were reserved specifically for boys to converse freely with male staff members, enjoy meals together, participate in recreational activities, and unwind. This program proved highly successful and remains an integral part of our offerings moving forward.\n <\/p>\n
\n If a teenager guy shares something with you, make an effort to set aside your personal judgments or biases and simply pay attention. It can be easy to want to cut them off or get sidetracked by things like phone calls, texts, little brothers or sisters, or other distractions vying for your focus. Even though we offer many programs and great amenities here, what the teenagers I interact with value the most is having our undivided time and concentration without interruptions.\n <\/p>\n
\n Phones and
\n gaming
\n Are an integral component of every adolescent boy\u2019s life; however, they should not dominate entirely. According to OnSide’s Generation Isolation study, among teenagers who frequently engage with their mobile devices, over fifty percent express a desire for reduced usage yet feel uncertain about achieving this change. Promoting involvement in sports teams, extracurricular clubs, community engagements, and youth centers assists young males in cultivating self-assurance, interpersonal abilities, forging friendships, and honing leadership qualities. This is evident daily within our sport programs as well as through our center’s teenage young leaders, who assist in mentoring younger kids. Such competencies pave the path toward adult independence, which cannot be fully acquired solely via screens.\n <\/p>\n
\n See
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